Reply To: Should I Bother Taking My Wife To A Beis Din

Larry
I agree with the recommendation to read Garden of Peace
There is a chapter on divorce.
Since I read the book, and since I am divorced and remarried. I truly believe that the only way to stay married (assuming that is what you want) is to follow the guidelines in that book.
Basically, once a woman decides she doesn’t want a guy, you can’t force her to be in a relationship. Usually holding on tight will just make her run harder.
Read the chapter, and live the book. I did and I have had nothing but good in my life since I adopted the philosophy.