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But the world has changed. There is an increasingly growing phenomenon of college grads being underemployed or unemployed. Many professions require graduate degrees that take years to complete. Add a few years of post-HS learning before college (common even among those who don’t proscribe of the kollel lifestyle) and by the time the young man has a job to support a wife and family he is not so young anymore. It is not very practical to expect young men to wait until they are in their upper 20s or nearing 30 to get married. So I can understand where Joseph’s statement is coming from even if he does not have the evidence to back it up.