My point was that if a convert joins the MO — and follows what many women do — she shouldnt be disqualified as a convert.
I don’t understand that argument (you’re not the first in the thread to make it). If a segment of Modern Orthodoxy doesn’t follow halacha, and a potential giyores only accepts to be like that segment, she hasn’t actually accepted ol mitzvos.
Unless your argument is that because some people who are considered Orthodox don’t keep certain halachos, she assumes that those are not really halachos.