in regards to this comment:
it is a form of singling out, and we try as much as possible to avoid doing that. .
you may be unaware that the reality is that your child’s name will come up frequently, every week for several years, when requesting, purchasing and packing snacks. I think requesting an entire school to accommodate a child, and then expect the child not to be singled out is a lot to ask.
For my part, I always did my best to make sure it was not presented negatively, but the result really depends on the child and their needs.