PBA
Please stop generalizing.
As you said:
“Who are all these ppl saying ridiculous stuff?
You don’t get to change the facts because you have a friend who is a doctor.”
There are plenty of Shomer shabbos residencies. IF you dont know what is available and dont know the realities just ask.
And yes we all have challenges. Im not sure what the problem is with that descriptor, some are challenged by feeling the need to opine when they clearly have no clue what they are talking about. for others the challenge is being deprived of your beautiful ” yell[ing] at their kids and swill scotch and fall asleep on couch. ”