Joseph: Very simple, the boy could be:
1. Boring
2. Unattractive
3. Non-communicative
4. non-mentshlich
Thinking back to my dating days over 30 years ago, I had my share of bad dates. I also believed that a number of the girls I dated did not think we had a good date.
Maybe you had to much to eat and drink at CTL’s daughters chasunah!