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Rebbeyid
“you are calling them fat. “””And it’s not nice to call people fat.”
That too Is not judgement?
Time to own up
We all judge others
And there is nothing wrong with nicely telling a friend that their clothes are too tight
Anymore than when you tell a friend that what they are saying Is lashon hara.
Should one Not do that either?
Maybe the reason they were saying the story gr8 because they did Not realize it was negative. So really when you tell your friend “please stop saying that. Its lashon hara. You are really just calling your friend a stupid person.
That is so Not nice
And judgemental too