I don’t understand where women got the role as Shaddchanit Its isn’t mentioned anywhere that a woman who knows no pertinent halacha with regards to Lashon Hara and what she is supposed to tell either party is in charge of Shidduchim, In the Sepharadi world the parents guided by the Rabbanim make the decision. Its like being amazed that mortality rates are skyrocketing when doctors are replaced by janitors….Are we following Halacha or Fiddler on the Roof?
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