Reply To: The Age Gap and the Musical Chairs of Shidduchim👴👶🏻🎶💺💺

Analogies are never perfect. But the musical chairs describes the harsh mathematical reality. That is, once you accept the correctness of the reality of the age gap effect. If one still doesn’t acknowledge the effects of the age gap, obviously they won’t accept the musical chairs analogy.

It may be offensive, but if the reality is offensive should the reality be swept under the carpet and not discussed or referenced or described? How else should a discussion be had about the reality that mathematically not all girls will have a match? Or about what individual girls can do to potentially avoid that destiny (i.e. start shidduchim early and get married young.)