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This is getting more and more bizarre. People talking about keeping boys or girls on the path, etc.. If the numbers were equal there would be no problem as everyone would have to work it out irregardless of all the factors, like looks, religious level, etc… The issue is when the numbers are not equal as has been mathematically proven over and over due to the AGE GAP FACT – not theory – so why bring in all sorts of alternative point about shadchonim, off the derech, etc… The cause is one and only one thing – a difference of numbers entering the pool. Please read carefully. All the shadchonim in the world or all the other factors have no bearing on a solution.