For all of those who have a hard time doing something that shows consideration for the male portion of the population – why don’t you instead focus on how dressing unstzniusly hurts the female portion of the population – the wives of said men whose marriages you might be affecting?
Also, if you dress untzniusly, maybe other girls/women who look up to you will follow your example and you will cause them to suffer?
Or if you want to approach it from a positive angle, if you dress tzniusly, maybe other girls/women who look up to you will follow your example and you will be mezakeh them with more zchusim and more Olam Haba?
Maybe you can be the role model who shows others how it’s possible to look great but still be tznius!