Reply To: Are out of town communities less judgemental or is that just a mindset

Like a lot of people here, I’ve spent some time OOT and in NY (or wherever “in town” is).
There are all kinds of OOT communities, and all kinds of communities in town.
I’ve met some seriously not nice people all over- out of town, in town, and all around variations of the above, though most people I’ve met in all of the above are good kind people.
I avoid making my own judgment about which people are judgmental, because I can’t ever really know what’s going on inside their heads or what judgments they’re making at any given moment.
I think the only judgment we need to worry about this week (and if we’re going to be honest with ourselves, all the other weeks of the year too) is not the judgment of people, wherever they happen to live.