Reply To: Tznius Problem?

Modesty – I don’t know if fun is the most accurate word do describe the motivation or feeling one gets from dressing not tznius. When I think of fun I think of going on a trip, playing games or sports spending time with friends and family, reading, or other hobbies. What do you mean by fun? What is is it about dressing that way that is fun? Does it lead to doing fun things? Do you mean something other than fun? Are you perhaps referring to the pleasure you getting from being noticed and getting attention? Also there is no word in lashon hakoshesh for fun.
I could be wrong but I have a suspension that perhaps your use of the innocuous and even positive term fun is really a cover for something much deeper and significant. Something that may be hard to accept and deal with.