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Mentsch: Isn’t all this makeup, clothes etc. really a females choice because they feel that it is the only way to date? It’s not technically a necessary cost it’s a cost they choose, in order to give themselves an advantage
It’s not a choice – it’s what they are told they have to do. Please keep in mind that I am not talking about anything extreme. But it does cost money to look decent, and it is necessary for dating. A guy doesn’t have to be superficial in order to want to marry a girl who’s attractive. If he only wants Miss America, that’s a problem, or if he thinks that looks are the most important or only important thing, that’s a problem. But that’s not what I’m talking about.