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What we disagree on is that I dont think using the stick is always effective and has recently backfires. We are much better off trying to use the carrot (Yes the carrot can fail to) I just think people who are more on the edge of orhtodoxy need the carrot more than the stick.
One can always do tshuva for a personal averiah, Its much harder to get someone who feels like he was punished by a community