TLIK:
“I ask about anger. What does he/she do when they get angry?”
How often have to gotten an honest answers, “Yes, he/she has an anger problem.” Who gave you such a negative answer?
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It is very, very useful to inquire about the shalom bayis of the parents.”
How often have you heard someone tell you the parents have Shalom Bayis problems? As often as it is the case?