Reply To: What percentage of off the derech kids/teens/adults return to Yiddishkeit?

This is part of my question. At what point do we concede that the person has found a different lifestyle for themselves & we swe should not sacrifice our own standards for them. Are we deluding ourselves that by allowing chillul Shabbos amongst other severe issurim in a frum home will somehow bring them back? This was implied by the video posted by Rabbi Hoffman in his latest article.
I personally believe that a modicum of halachik observance be expected from a non observant family member. This was not the message I heard on the video.