Question isn’t how my post was allowed. It’s how this was allowed: “chassidishe chasunahs … ritual … drone on … no one listening…”
TLIK wasn’t paying attention to the Chosson weeping and doing Teshuva – which is very much the point and if it takes 5 or 10 or 20 minutes – so what? We are human not robots.
How about this ad hominum attack on a Heilige minhag:
“MItzvah tantz … drone on… eulogies.”. This is OK?
” I fail to see this as meaningful at all.”. OK so you are unlearned- instead-of learning you trash others.
“obscene … cavorting as if engaged in some exalted exercise …”
Then the last paragraph doesn’t qualify itself as being applicable to non-Chassidishe chasunahs, which is false and misleading.
If someone doesn’t understand or appreciate something then maybe the problem is with them. My point is – why make fun or be hurtful?