Looking at this thread, here’s some things I have seen inside:
When I was in high school I heard of the whole tu bav story and heard the women would say ein haisha ela lyofi.
Now I realized I must be missing something, because if the gemara says it, its true, but why would the women demean themselves in such a way? Especially we say in eishes chayil sheker hachein vhevel hayofi? And weren’t the people of that time on a much higher level than being so shallow?
So I looked into the Rebbe’s sichos to find what I was missing. I found it bh.