One more, very much a favourite among the women:
Eizuhi isha ksheira osa rtzon baala.
Normally a woman accomplishes her role by being batul to her husband – taking his spiritual instructions and leadership, and running the home according to his wishes and standards.
However what if the husband wants something that isn’t in line with what Hashem would want of them? What is she to do then?
So here comes the second way of reading the maamar chazal : she can osa – create – the will of her husband.
A woman can, in a feminine – gentle way, with her subtle influence, change her husbands will to be in line with what Hashem wants. And this is her task in those situations.