SY – how truly sad and unfortunate. No matter what goes on you just can’t stop talking about the hate that you want to believe is seeping thru here. No, we don’t keep going on to different things when one issue is refuted because the issue has not been refuted. The bottom line issues were not addressed appropriately. Yes, CS addressed them by saying “because”. But there were no answers given that actually resolved the halachik and hashkofik problems that were presented. You want to call that hate instead of addressing it, feel free. But that is not fair. You weren’t being hated. People had legitimate concerns and the answers did NOT satisfy their halachik and legitimate questions so they continue having questions and you keep calling it hate. So is it hate that stops you from leaving chabad? No, it is your learning, belief and upbringing. Are we entitled to a learning belief and upbringing? Appearantly not in your eyes. Everything is just hate. And jealousy.
So too bad, because aside from your impulsive emotional outbursts you were one of the only ones who was able to offer some learned and sane perspectives of your life and lifestyle. There was much to be learned from you about things we didn’t know. But if you can’t do it without all the sarcasm and name calling and mud slinging that you imagine to be thrown your way, and accusations of hate ad nauseam, it makes the conversation quite stilted. So the final tactic is to slam the door in a huff. Both of you together. And as you leave with your accusations of hatred, you hope that we somehow can live side by side. hmmm, through that closed door it may be hard to ever find out the answer to that, won’t it.