To anyone and everyone:
I don’t think it’s a good idea to get direct, personal. Please remember, each and every poster over here has a living and breathing (B”H) body. A guf that contains a beating heart and mind. Replete with moods, wants and needs. Each a unique and distinguished personality and character. You don’t want to cause needless anguish and tzaar to any Jew (person or baal chai either).
I know. I was once at the receiving end…