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It’s hard. I myself would be wary of anyone on meds. I don’t know what your meds are for, so it depends obviously. But I’ve been through so much, and have so much on my plate, if is taking meds for a mental illness, I’d be very wary, even if he is functioning great, and he;s been on them for years, things happen, people change, what if one day he won’t want to take it? Our bodies change, what if he needs to switch medications? Going through the whirlwind of finding the right one and dose and meanwhile he is falling apart…

I just don’t.

If the meds are for ADHD, any physical issues, or very small things, like hormones or moods are a bit off not like major mental disorder, than I’d look into it obviously, but I’d marry a guy like that.