Shulchan Aruch is merely “guidance” and people who call themselves a rabbi can make themselves the “final word” against the Shulchan Aruch?! You have “experience and have advocated in this area and as long as the wife states” a claim even without evidence that the husband desires your beit din will order an involuntary divorce against the clear Biblical Law as enumerated in the Torah and Shulchan Aruch which clearly and unambiguously rules that without evidence on a claim denied by the husband/defendent it can’t be accepted and a divorce cannot be ordered?
Did you say you’re affiliated with a non-Orthodox stream? Because what you’re writing is clearly against Torah Law.