BTW Joseph
When I referenced hilchos Yerusha. I dont mean like ZD said “If there is no will, then the State probate courts get invovled and it divides up the assets equally among the childre”
I mean if a person is planning for achar meah veesrim and he askss his Rav what should I do, should I give my Bechor pi shanyim, my sons one portion and the girls nothing, or should I divide it “fairly”
(almost?) any Rav will say to give the girls as well and that the bechor doesn’t get pi shnayim. There are halachic ways to make this chal that have been developed over centuries. I dont understand how you can not view this as an example of a mitzvah that we dont follow.