As someone who was a working bochur (married now) i was shoved under the rug. It really stung when I was asked by a friend who was in yeshiva “how many resume’s was I currently looking through” (answer was zero). I even called a big Shadchan in Lakewood if we can meet, he gave me a location. There were two other BMG bucherim there waiting. When he came he spoke to them each for a couple minutes. My turn spoke around 2 min and most of conversation was about how my older sister was doing (he made her shidduch) and what my younger sister who’s also in the parshah looking for.
Something has to change. This is not OK