@rebyidd23 we mean working as in makinf a living as opposed to being supported. Now I’m sure someone who is a Doctor or lawyer or someone who owns anwealthy buisness will probably be more attractive and thus may not be on the shorter end of the stick. However an average buchur doing say Amazon, or medical billing, or warehouses…. he is very likely to get totally ignored from shadchanim and people who may have good ideas. Its even tempting to try the “do it yourself” way (dont try this, will probably backfire).
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