Syag never said anything of the sort. Syag said that trips to uman are on the list of so few people that your adding it in was just a dig. And an assumption that a significant amount of people going cant afford it.
I too get very upset when people who cant afford tuition are spending money on things that are not important but I wouldn’t be the one to decide what things those are for which families, I have been dealing with providing food and things to people who don’t have for over 30 years and I have learned the hard way that each situation is very unique and requires research and shailas. To throw out Uman singles out a specific population in a way that is neither appropriate or mentchlich.