TLIK:
1. The issue with a shidduch crisis is notably more pronounced in the Yeshivish/Litvish community than in the Chasidish community. I should have been clearer about this point. Most of my points above relate to the non-Chasidish community much more.
2. In that context, the shidduch crisis is notably more pronounced than any child abuse crisis. The shidduch crisis, to borrow your language, has been demonstrated in accumulated anecdotal data. If you want to assert that there’s any notable community child abuse crisis, something that’s never been demonstrated other than individual, sporadic cases, not at the tzibbur level. So before we entertain the hypothesis that there is an abuse problem to examine, first show us something convincing that there is an issue to study.