@Joseph
I am well aware that both parties must be agreeable to giving and receiving the get.
This is something I discuss before taking on the client for a civil divorce.
I also only take clients who are agreeable up front to an equitable distribution of the assets and funding the children(s)’ education.
I don’t take a Jewish client for a civil divorce if he or she is not willing to give/receive a get. I’ll refer them to a non-Jewish attorney.