Reply To: Would you marry someone like this?

“This was caused by the parents neglect to be tested”
No, this was csused by Gd. We have testing for a reason. We also have sitiations whete things seem to ‘slip through the cracks’ because that’s how Gd wanted it. There are probably thousands of problems that can come up that can’t be tested for in advance as well. It is not in our hands to make sure our children have only healthy offspring. Our job is to do our best and not point fingers when Hashem throws you a curveball. It’s so easy for us to *say* אין עוד מלבדו, but these are the times when Hashem wants us to prove we mean it.