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happyboy123
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Shopping613 as a girl in shiduchim would you turn down a boy who is trying to quit IE going from 1 pack a day to only 1 a day
Don’t people working on themselves have any value to you
It’s girls like you who are extreme about smokers that are causing this crisis
As an older bachur in shiducim and a x heavy smoker makes shiduchim very difficult
what can someone like me do quit cold turkey it won’t help. as shadchanim have told me once you have a name of a heavy smoker even quitting won’t help
We need to remove this stigma like all the other unnecessary stigmas
Shopping613 what would you do if after you got married he became a smoker. Would you divorce him CV