CAD: The OP is coming from wearing a black hat and only white shirts living in Lakewood. He said he wants something more like Brooklyn where he can wear colored shirts, etc., but not be as expensive so Brooklyn.
Teaneck and the other towns in that comment are thorough and through MO, something the OP isn’t seeking. Teaneck in fact is the prototypical MO town, not to mention far more expensive than Brooklyn.