Federal workers, contractors and those business that rely on them are losing right now. eventually government programs such as food stamps and rent subsidy, will run out of money and then it will effect a greater number of people mostly democrats.
As to the state of the union, you must realize that the democrats want to impeach him and some have called him names so I expect they will act in a disrespectful manner. But because the state of the union is televised it will be toned down.