“Sorry, that’s just not a good reason to ignore the disparity, or tell people that they they’re demonizing women, they’re in denial about other issues, or that there isn’t a shidduch crisis, etc.”
The explanation for the above is that there will always be some people who will respond with aggressiveness and cynicism and argue for the sake of arguing. It has more to do with personality than the topic at hand, so I would just ignore those type of people and focus on what is important.