“Someone recently coined a term for that. It’s called “Shidduch Crisis Denial Syndrome™”.”
And another one joins the frey. Thanks for the put down, I mean we can’t be right if we see it differently. There can only be one line of thought. The fact that it’s as clearly non sensical to us as it is sensical to you doesn’t seem to be rattling our cages. The lack of congeniality toward others is probably more of answer to your (global you again) crisis than how many chairs you think are set out.