Joseph
“What is “the bad part of chasidish dating” that you refer to? If it is that they research so much (far more than the Litvish) before seeing each other, how can you say it is bad if the system works well for them?”
“Bad” wasnt the best choice of words. Its bad when all the research is separated from actually getting married
“What leads you to believe such changes would be beneficial to the Litvish?
To paraphrase, Differetn expectations for where dating is supposed to lead . V’ein kan makom l’ha’arich.
syag
thank you for the kind words