Ubiq: “Its bad when all the research is separated from actually getting married”
Why/how is that bad?
“To paraphrase, Differetn expectations for where dating is supposed to lead .”
I asked you how if the Litvish change their system to be more like the Modern Orthodox, as you proposed that the Litvish allow boys and girls to directly hookup at weddings and other events. How’s “different expectations” explain why the Litvish should partially switch to the MO model?