Klugeryid
1) anyone here can post whatever they want. no one is obligated to respond the way someone else wants.
2) when I wrote my comment, your comment was not yet shown. so I responded to avocado’s original question about hitting and screaming.
3) what I meant that it creates a distance between parents and children, was a much greater distance then according to torah. the torah wants a distance based on respect and awe. I’m talking about a distance that the child is scared to discuss things with parents, to open up to them, to love them, to care for them.
4) for NOW, I will tell you another thing you should not do. you took apart my comment, made fun of me for writing some things. DONT DO THIS TO YOUR CHILDREN. your children might respond to you, not in the way you want them to, DONT MAKE FUN OF THEM, all you have to do is, repeat the question in a soft tone. talk to them in a way that they should want to talk to you and discuss things with you.
5) it’s late now, maybe tomorrow or after shabbos i will come back here to give you posotive thing to do.
