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justme22
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I remember often a Shadchan would suggest an idea that I wasn’t that into to start with , to convince me the Shadchan would say what’s the big deal go out on a date and worst case you don’t go out again and I would think to myself “that’s never true , Shadchanim will always push a second date and one feels force” so this idea sounds nice but it might get some boys to say no to more shiduchim.

I think Shadchanus money should start high but then after each bad suggestion that the Shadchan offers ( each date that didn’t result in an eventual engagement) the shadchanus hapuld go down by 10 or 20% thus incentivisimh Shadchanim to think before just randomly setting people up without thought.. I’m kind of kidding