Rso – “And rebbetzinwhat’shername, the issue isn’t so much not sleeping in the sukkah as in saying that it is the best way of acting when the Gemoro and ALL poskim (including the Baal Hatanya) say otherwise. The same with eating before Shachris where it is permitted for someone who is feeling weak, and not as a blanket minhag.”
The pot calling the kettle black. Let me paraphrase your words:
“the issue isn’t so much about SHAVING or Hoicha Kedusha at MINCHA as in saying that it is the best way of acting when the Gemoro and ALL poskim say otherwise. The same with eating Cholov Akum where it is permitted when needed, and not as a blanket minhag.”
A bit of a double standard, don’t you think?!