A person should not need a middleman (Rebbe or rav etc…) to turn to for help when he needs help from Hashem. He should go Directly to Hashem and ask for whatever he lacks. Hashem is waiting 24-7 to help/answer his loving children for whatever they need. All we need to do is call out to Hashem v’dorshei Hashem…. (tehillim 34:10) for one that seeks out Hashem lacks nothing that is good (versus seeking out others)
Make yourself a daily learning Seder of Chovos Halevavos and transfer all your life problems directly to Hashem to solve for you.