Rebbetzin G.
How do you think Hashem feels when he sees his beloved children and nation klal Yisroel turning to others for help when they clearly know that they can go directly to Hashem for any help (from shidduchim to parnassa to children etc….) and have no need for the middleman?
Hashem loves us and is waiting 24-7 to help us but we need to show our faith and trust in Hashem alone and no one else.
Start working on it by making a daily learning Seder of Chovos Halevavos (duties of the heart)
How fortunate and grateful I am to Hashem for being blessed to be such a happy person, cause my entire life 24-7 is dependent on Hashem alone, not on doctors, bosses, medicines etc… For help, Hashem alone is the only one WHO WE CAN REALLY TURN TO FOR IMMEDIATE GUARANTEED HELP. so why would a person turn to anyone else?
Let Hashem know how you can answer this question back to Hashem. Ask yourself before replying