Reply To: How Shidduchim became a beauty pageant contest.

Pictures in shidduchim are a wild breach of tznius and goes against everything that is taught in yeshivos and bais yaakovs. Yes physical attraction is important but that is something that grows on you as you get to know someone. If a boy has a mishugas about something like hair color one of the references can be asked. Lastly, what is the point of a boys mother seeing the picture. If there is anyone who is deciding if they should go ahead with a a proposed shidduch based on a picture it should be the boy.