very misleading title
heres something that fits better
its very hard to return 2 the dereech. 4 the same reason they went off theyre not going back so fast even if they want to. it takes self control, motivation, etc. and dont kid urself that whoevers not otd has those any better.
so its doomed 4 gehenim unless theres someway of committing suicide on the neshama. if there is let me know.