Or to put it a different way,
Since you are seeming to try to justify its “severity “by pulling out the embarrassment card.
If you call someone a nasty name in public, you are embarrassing them.
Yet would you say that that is the worst crime short of murder?
(of course now you will say something of the sort. But honestly, had I asked, do you think someone should go to jail for life if they call someone a nasty name in public, you’d say I’m Josef like and I’m just nasty trolling.
Yet from the embarrassment angle, they are both the same.)
I’m not so sure you are right anyway, because if it was done in private, that may not be called embarrassing.
