IMHO, very few people know right away that this is “the one” (no harps playing in the background or bolt of lightning hitting the person) but generally there is some spark of interest. And yes I have seen or been told by others of a child coming home from a date saying I think this is the person who I will marry but not necessarily the first date. I remember a girl telling me she and a guy were going for their 10th date and she still wasnt sure. 3 weeks later I was told about their Lchaim and 28 years later are celebrating births of einiklach.
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