Dearest Reb Shimon Nodel,
Yasher Koach, tiyeh Kamocha Harbeh beYisroel. I understand from the way you posted that you re definitely from the more distinguished members from this small tzibbur. What you said is what I wanted to hear. Though, I can not reveal the name of the Posek (because of privacy reasons of my friends) I can tell you that this is a distinguished Posek in Chutz l’Oretz who have dealt with tens of cases (maybe even more) of Geirim and Geirus. No offense taken, I very much acknowledge my tremendous lack of knowledge in Halacha (and definitely in non normative Halacha). I don’t think you are saying Tipshus, but I still like to clarify the Inyan with a person who really has the answers. I spoke to a Rosh Kollel about this in E”Y on Erev Yom Tov and he said that these are the shaalois of the big Poskim. He didn’t though, brush aside the assumption of Giluy Milsa after the fact. He said that probably this would Paskened from a case to case basis.
But indeed, till I heard the Maaseih of my past friend and what was being said about him I was also quite surprised at the utter possibility of this being taken in consideration. Now I didn’t think to much about it till I read the post of the chashuve first poster. It just reawakened in me the past and all the heartache.
From E”Y a Gute (and now more then ever) and Gezunte Summer.