Dear Common,
I totally agree with you. But parents continually put their boy s back into yeshiva, instead of looking for alternative ways to grow. If the bachur is ready to go on is own, there is still tremendous peer pressure to be in yeshiva. Even more on his parents to get him into one. That is where we end up with entitlement. “Your son has to be in yeshiva.” There used to be options. and people respected their peers decision of what to do with their own son. I was refering to girls, as I do not know much about how this correlates in Bais Yaakovs.
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