Reply To: Food Fight

It isnt part of the wedding. followign the wedding split makes no sense.

The counterargument would be that on an ordinary night they wouldn’t be ordering this food, it’s obviously only because of the wedding.

Only reason to differentiate would be if one side is much bigger than the other say Chossons side is twice the size of the kallah’s side.

Probably true, and that’s probably true even for the ikar catering as well – if they go over the minimum because the chosson’s side is bigger, they should pay the extra.

In this case, the families eating before the smorgasbord are probably relatively similar in size.